Posts Tagged ‘emotion’

Two Sides To Every Story

Wednesday, November 19th, 2008

I promised that we would talk at least a little about how to work with your past rather than against it. And the 21st Century Academy course will do even more for you in this regard (in fact if you recall applicable portions or exercises, feel free to comment on them on this post). To get started, let’s look at the past for what it really is—a story with two sides.

Two Distinct Personalities

You may not have realized it at the time, and to be sure you may not have come to the realization yet, but for every negative thing that occurred in the past there is an equal and opposite reaction. Every time something “bad” happened, there was a corresponding positive side to it. Not surprisingly, we don’t easily see these positives and it can take a long time before we figure out the good that became of them, because pain is such an overpowering emotion. In most cases we are just too consumed by the negative to see any good that is there.

Reassessing The Past

Understanding this is important. Because if you know that there is positive there, and if you look hard enough, you can find it. Why does that matter? Does that matter?

It does matter because as we talked about before you cannot continue to compete with your past. And you do not always have to like what happened, but you can at least reconcile it to find the positive result that led you to this place (the positive place where you better yourself, create wealth, and attract better things for your life). That, my friends, is what we call growth. When we grow, as we know thanks to our wealth empowerment education, we expand our positive horizons and clear the way for money and positivity to come into our lives. We capture that power of positive attraction; but when we ignore the past and try to compete with it, we really only create more angst and negative subconscious. So here’s to a look back at a better, more positive past, for a better, more abundant future!

Sean Rasmussen
21st Century Academy
Universal Wealth Creation © 2004 - 2008

Maintaining Mindset In Good Times And Bad

Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

In a separate comment on another blog of mine [seanrasmussen.com], a comment came in during our conversations related to the Economics of State of Mind to the effect that in booming times people are quick to take credit and say that they made it all on their own; but in times of bust, such as what many economies of the world are experiencing now, it’s always someone else’s fault. So which is it? Are you responsible for your own financial outcome or is your current financial state the fault or credit of another? Because it can’t really be both ways, can it?

What Would Jamie McIntyre Say?

While it is much easier to say that a lack of money is the fault of another, that is not really true. And like it or not, Jamie McIntyre’s wealth education course is based in reality; in real, workable, achievable ways to get rich. So that means that he would have you not only take credit for your financial successes, but also your failures. It’s unfortunate and it’s true, but ultimately, even though there are outside forces that come into play, it is your process of decision, mindset, and action that determines your personal financial outcome.

You Control Your Financial Future

But what about forces outside of your control? How can you be left to blame for those?

We all know that these forces exist, and that you will come up against both great successes and temporary defeat. And it is what you do with that that determines sustainable wealth. If you know these factors exist, you know that you can take steps to counter the negative and leverage the positive. You can diversify, prepare, save, and even put yourself in a position to benefit financially from tough times. There are things that you can do, as you will surely learn.

Without responsibility and action, you will not thrive and become wealthy. Knowing how to be wealthy means knowing how to manage money and investment in good times and in bad. That, and wiping blame off the table as the useless emotion and negativity-generator that it is.

Sean Rasmussen
21st Century Academy
Universal Wealth Creation © 2004 - 2008

At The Heart Of Overwhelm

Wednesday, October 8th, 2008

Related to our last post, today we take on the emotion of feeling overwhelmed; more accurately, getting over the feeling.

The emotion of feeling overwhelmed is one that a lot of people come up against as they set off on and work through a wealth education and wealth creation. It’s not surprising, because if you look at it from the standpoint of the beginner there is just so much great information to learn. But the promise of greatness is not always enough in and of itself to overcome that feeling of being completely overwhelmed by the task ahead. Then what is?

Overcoming Overwhelming Feelings

As with so much else talked about here, perspective is an excellent way to overcome the barriers that stand in your way; in this case, the barrier of feeling overwhelmed. And one of the best ways to gain perspective is to understand what lies at the root of your problem. In this case, what is causing you to feel overwhelmed by the tasks of financial learning and investment ahead.

Where Overwhelm Is Born

Overwhelm is born at the start of new tasks and projects. It rears its head just after the initial elation of having found something new, promising, and exciting; just after that feeling subsides. It appears right where you start to understand all that you really will need to do to get from point A to point B, to your goal of wealth and financial freedom.

That tells you where it starts, but why does it start?

In many ways the feeling of being overwhelmed gets its hold in your own ambition. You become overwhelmed because you want to do it all now. You want to be done with this and be rich already! And that’s admirable. But that’s not, unfortunately, reality. It takes time and work to get to where you want to be. Breaking down the task, going step by step, and recognizing your progress—being that much closer—is a good way to overcome those feelings of being overwhelmed.

Perspective is an important life tool. It’s the one that gets you through the tougher times. So get perspective on what being overwhelmed really is, and put that feeling in its place.

Sean Rasmussen
21st Century Academy
Universal Wealth Creation © 2004-2008